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ABOUT US in The NY Times, April 22.
PLEASE NOTE:
Meetings are NOW held at
St. Peter's Church in Glenside, on THURSDAYS, since our former
church, Abington Prez, is renovating.
-
Thursday, May 1, 7:30 to 9:45 pm - Evening Meeting. St. Peter's Episcopal Church, 654 N.
Easton Road between Pleasant & Cross, Glenside, PA 19038. Located above Sloane
Auto on opposite side of street. Park in rear or on sidestreet.
Click here for directions. Walk thru
parking lot & enter via Red Door on Right. Bring paper & pen & prepare to
learn. Exchange contact info with like-minded individuals.
- Thursday, May 8 - Helen's Mornings at the
Willow Grove Mall, co-starring Marion, from 10 am till Noon, you don't have to be on time.
Meet in front of Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream. Followed by brisk aerobic walk around
mall. Call Helen at 215-646-0266 & she'll call to
remind you. Marion's no. is 215-887-3396.
Teenagers
welcome!
- Thursday, May 15, 7:30 to 9:45 pm - Evening Meeting - SPEAKER MEETING,
St. Peter's Episcopal Church, 654 N.
Easton Road between Pleasant & Cross, Glenside, PA 19038. Located above Sloane
auto on opposite side of street. Park in rear or on sidestreet. Walk thru
parking lot & enter via Red Door on Right.
Click here for directions. Bring paper & pen. Prepare
to learn. Also exchange contact info with like-minded individuals.
Speaker cancelled. Stay tuned to see if we get someone else.
- ND recommends! Saturday afternoon, May 17, 2 to 4:30 pm -
Hatboro Writers Group. Held at
Le
Coffee Salon, 50. S. York Rd., Hatboro, PA 19040, across from Produce
Junction. All writing forms accepted (poetry, novels, memoirs). We critique one
another's writing or just sit & listen.
Click here for map. For info email
Ruth Deming
or call her at 215-659-2142.
- Thursday, May 22, 10 to 11:30 am - Helen's Mornings at the
Willow Grove Mall, co-starring Marion, from 10 am till Noon, you don't have to be on time.
Meet in front of Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream. Followed by brisk aerobic walk around
mall. Call Helen at 215-646-0266 & she'll call to
remind you. Marion's no. is 215-887-3396.
Teenagers
welcome!
- Tuesday, May 27 -
Movie Nite at our Willow Grove Office. 7:30 pm.
404 Davisville Road, Willow Grove, PA, 19090.
Click here for direx. Same side of
street as Willow Grove Train Station. Watch for lit-up sign reading "D.
LaRosa Builders."
Park in rear. Enter ground-level double doors..
Office Phone: 215-659-2366.
Suggestions welcome.
Thanks, Tara, for hosting.
Email Tara if you wish to attend. Dress warmly!!!
- Weds., May 28 - Ada's Outing.
Visit to
The
STOOGEUM (the 3 Stooges museum). Our by-appointment-only tour is at
10:30 a.m. Meet at
Abington Prez
Church at 9:30 am.
Please
RSVP to Ada at 215-947-2429
or
email her. Thanks, Ada & Rich!
- Thursday, May 29 - 7:30 to 9:45 pm - Evening Meeting St. Peter's Episcopal Church,
654 N.
Easton Road between Pleasant & Cross, Glenside, PA 19038. Located above Sloane
auto on opposite side of street. Park in rear or on sidestreet. Walk thru
parking lot & enter via Red Door on Right.
Click here for directions. Bring
paper & pen. Prepare to learn. Also exchange contact info with like-minded
individuals.
Discussion Leader of large group is Sam Fredericks: How to Get a
Great Job that Fits YOU! As a career coach, Sam will discuss how he got his
client up the difficult career ladder & how he continues to move up himself.
Handouts.
- Sat., May 31 - Recovery from Suicide Loss
Support Group,
last Saturday of every month, at 1 pm, held at our Outside Office: 404 Davisville Rd. Willow Grove,
PA 19090. Run by Rodica Mihalis & sponsored by New
Directions and
Survivors of Suicide. For more info
click here. Must register by calling: 215-545-2242. Or email
Rodica (pronounced Ro-DEE-ka) at
this address.
ANNOUNCEMENTS
AH-CHOO!
Allergy season is here & with it meds for
allergies. Make sure your allergy medication will not cause moodswings.
Research this before swallowing.
FREE Drug Program for all Americans.
Click.
FREE for all Pennsylvanians.
Click.
GET POLITCAL! Volunteer for people like
Hillary,
Obama,
Nader or
McCain for
President. We need JOBS, healthcare,
respect for the environment and an end to the war.
Remember, volunteering is a prelude toward work & a life of meaning.
WE LOVE HELPING YOU & NOW WE NEED YOUR HELP. If you enjoy reading this
website &
The Blog and Poetry of Ruth Deming, send in your tax-deductible
donation NOW.
Mail to: New Directions Support Group, Inc. - 404 Davisville Road - Willow
Grove, PA 19090.
N E W !
Read Ruth's blog of Jan. 17, 2008: Why I'm Cured
NEWER! Read Ruth's Guest Editorial in the
Doylestown, PA Intelligencer, 1-18-08.
Click here. Her bio was listed
in the newspaper but not online. It reads: Ruth Z. Deming is a psychotherapist,
poet & founder of ND. Diagnosed w/bipolar disorder at age 38, she is cured from
the illness, as are many others later in life. (She's 62 plus change.)
I N F O PACKET written by 4 of our members. Click our
Quik Books
on Left.
N E W ! Ruth Z. Deming, MGPGP,
appeared on Comcast CN8 Newsmakers in this 5-minute interview 10-17-07.
Click here. Find other online news sources
here:
One.
Two.
Three.
Four.
N E W ! Excellent videos of famous
people w/mood disorders:
Mike Wallace and
Jane
Pauley, sponsored by the smart people
at
NARSAD.
MUST CLICK! John McManamy,
award-winning
infomaniac.
A favorite Blog is
Bipolar Blast by Gianna Kali.
bp
magazine.
HealthyPlace.
PMHCA.
Bazelon
Law.
Washington Post story Healing a Troubled
Mind
Top
Stories from NARSAD.
A Cautionary Tale: Going off Meds, Read May 1
entry.
Model
Support Group in upstate New York.
ERIC WILSON ACCEPTS & EXTOLS HIS MELANCHOLIA.
Click here.
ANDREW WEIL, MD, loves healthy foods for a
healthy
mind & body.
PHOTO CAPTION
ND meeting Nov. 15, 2007. The great Teamwork of New Directions.We
help save lives and lift your spirits by our bonding & networking system. We
care about each & every member and encourage our members to exchange phone
numbers & email addresses. They do! Our team includes:
Ruth Z. Deming,
Founder/Director & 2007 Runner-Up Poet Laureate Montgomery County (red
sweater);
Laurel Hoffmann, center, Leader of Family Group; and
Ada Moss
Fleisher, top row, left, Leader of Depression Group.
Also shown: Randy Irion,
peer specialist, top left; business
co-owner
Bob Cuddy, top center.
Other proud members include avid cyclist
Judy "Sparkles" Kroll;
writer Linda; award-winning poet & naturalist
Carolyn
Constable; family member
& food columnist
Mitch Davis.
Members set a goal at meetings to accomplish by
the next meeting:
Baby Steps.
Contact us at 215-659-2366, ext. 1 or
email us.
SO WHAT'S NEW?
D E N T A L C A R E: For clinics in
Montgomery County. For
clinics in Bucks.
C O O L T I P S F O R H O T W
E A T H E R:
Before leaving home, drink a glass of cold water. Bring a water bottle with you.
Wear Sunscreen No. 15. People on psych meds (esp. Lithium, Lamictal, and
antipsychotics) must be careful about being in extreme heat. If you don't have
A/C, cool off periodically at the library, bookstore, or a loved one's home. If on lithium, there's a chance your body can become toxic
(confusion, dizziness, slurred speech, abnormal gait). If so, go to the ER
immediately!
Photos from our
Coffeeshop Celebration April 5.
Photos from our
Abington Library Display Case for April is
Poetry Month. Did you know that many of us with mood disorders have The
Artist's Condition?
A D V A N C E S IN MEDICINE: Barking Up the
New Tree of Glutamate. Click here for
info &
foods with
glutamate.
COFFEE, TEA or ME? Latest Tea research shows...
practically nothing but it's a great read.
W H Y W A T C H Y O U R D I E T ? Read this NY Times article of Feb. 5, 2008 on the life-threatening Metabolic
Syndrome.
Click here. And don't forget your
all-important aerobic exercise. Park far away & w-a-l-k. Take the
s-t-a-i-r-s.
F O R G E T F U L L L L ? Read this
Times article of 12-4-07.
M O O D C H A R T S: Is your Mood off the charts? Find
out by downloading a FREE mood chart, invented by Gary Sachs, MD.
Click here & scroll down. For a comment by
originator Gary Sachs,
click here. Thanks to Our Jessica for
reminding us of the importance of mood charting!
S I G N U P for FREE email
alerts on Advocacy Issues affecting those of us with Mental Illness or
our Loved Ones. Click on
Mental Health America.
F I R S T G E N O M E S T U D Y O N B
I P O L A R from National Institute of Mental Health.
Click here to learn about the combined,
small effects of variations in many different genes in the brain, none of
which is powerful enough to cause the disease by itself. Study published in
Molecular Psychiatry, May 8, 2007.
OUR INFORMATION PACKET, written by 4 of our members,
appears on wikiHow, part of
Wikipedia visited by millions of people per
day.
COMPARE PRICES OF HEALTH INSURANCE from this 2007 Award-winning Website.
Click here.
DON'T MISS Websites that can be helpful for you. Scroll three-quarters
down this homepage to "More Great Websites" such as the Beck Institute Blog. On
your mark, get set, scroll......
- Fabulous Events at Other Agencies:
Click
here & scroll down.
HOPE EXISTS ALWAYS! New study for
Brain Stimulation. Peruse their entire
website. Great info!
N E W D I R E C T I O N
S M E E T I N G S :
Large Meeting: Average attendance: 40-50 - We break into small
group discussions -
Revolving membership: Several hundred. Also, we
suggest you read this entire Homepage & Links for important info concerning You,
the most important person in the Whole Wide
World!!!
1st and 3rd and 5th THURSDAYS of the month from 7:30 to 9:45 PM
St. Peter's Episopal Church
654 N. Easton Road (between Pleasant & Cross) - opposite Sloane auto dealership
Glenside, PA 19038
All participants must register by calling: 215-659-2366, ext. 1
(eligibility criteria listed below)
Email Compass123@comcast.net
Donation: $5 per person. $8 per family. Bring your family members or
friends. They meet in a separate room. (We also encourage
healthcare professionals to attend, such as student nurses, doctors, therapists.)
3rd Thursday is Speaker Nite, followed by Small Groups.
Give us your Speaker suggestions.
New Directions welcomes adults (current age range: 17-76) who (1) have a primary diagnosis of a mood disorder (depression
or bipolar) and are under the care of a physician (preferably a psychiatrist),
and (2) are free from substance abuse issues for a year.
Family members and
friends are encouraged to attend - and may do so with or without the patient.* For
confidential registration, call us at 215-659-2366, ext. 1. A phone greeter will return
your call within 4-8 hours. If not, simply call again! We know the importance of
speaking to a real person instead of a machine.
Click here for definition of
Depression.
Click here for definition of
Bipolar Disorder.
Read both of these sites thoroughly. Know your illness! And, please, Dear
Reader, avoid saying "I'm bipolar." Instead say, "I have bipolar disorder." We
are NOT our illness & have so much to offer here on Mother
Earth.
RUTH Z. DEMING & N E W D I R E C T I O N S on TV :
Click here for the 5-minute Comcast
CN8 Newsmakers TV Interview, aired in June 2006, where director Ruth Z. Deming,
MGPGP, is interviewed.
Great publicity for all people with mood disorders - and their family &
friends - illustrating, that "for every terrible story about someone with
depression or bipolar disorder, there are a thousand success stories!"
READ RUTH's Letter to the Editor in the
Philadelphia Inquirer, 12/09/2006: Click here.
We encourage our members to remain in the workforce. However, if you are unable
to work, here's a website on How to Get Disability. Written by an attorney near
Lansing, Michigan, she says your best bet is to have your psychiatrist vouch for
you.
Click here on her excellent website.
Disability Rights Network of Pennsylvania
(a merge of PA Protection & Advocacy and the Disabilities Law Project) in
Harrisburg hosts helpful info about disability.
Click here.
Patronize our talented people & family members:
For many people in Our Crowd, such as Nick Breslin, below, owning one's own
business is both pleasurable & profitable.
* Ron Abrams is an attorney whose concentration is on helping
people get back on their feet again after being injured in an accident. Feel
free to email him at RBAbrams427@msn.com or call him at 215-627-1012.
* Tender Loving Clipper, Professional Dog Grooming: 47 E. Butler Ave.,
Chalfont, PA 18914. Owner Lisa Lowe-Weil. Call 215-822-6660.
* David Bernstein, Reverse Mortgage Specialist: "Keep Our Older Adults in Their
Own Homes." Call David for info at 215-742-5001, ext. 123
* Nick Breslin Builds a Better Deck
Breslin Decks & Awning
* Patrick & Peggie Walsh
The Walsh Group of Doylestown, PA
The Walsh Group
- 215-491-3448
* Our Robert B. Cuddy
ComforTan, Inc. of
Warrington, PA
* Neal O'Keefe, owner of
Willow Grove Pools & Spas. Call for an estimate
at 215-659-2002. Or snow removal.
*
Our Bob's Blog: Brilliance on the Rampage
- our first webmaster & the man who
told us, "Privacy no longer exists."
The Bendesky
Family Website
*
Sharon, a Family Member, from The State that is Home to Artichokes, Lemons, A
Great University System, & The Golden Gate Bridge.
Click on her
Wonderful Blog.
F e a t u r e d W e b s i t e s & R e a d i n g s :
N E W S T U D Y
on
Bipolar Depression
published in New England Journal of Medicine,
4-2-07. Click on
LA Times for a recap. Click on
Journal for the full 12-page story. According
to New Directions' psychiatric advisor, Dr. Pam London Barrett: "Bipolar
depression is best treated with Lamictal, Lithium, Depakote, Zyprexa, Seroquel
and/or
Symbyax (combo of Zyprexa & Prozac). Often
several drugs are combined. Remember, each brain is different & reacts
differently to each med.
B E S T T R E A T M E N T for Bipolar Depression
is Meds plus all-important "Intensive Psychotherapy,"
according to a study in Archives of General Psychiatry, April '07, summarized by
WebMD.
Click here.
NOTEWORTHY NEWS from New England Journal of
Medicine as reported in the NY Times Feb. 27, 2007: "Serotonin Syndrome."
Click here to read about this not-so-rare
condition which patients & doctors fail to recognize in its earlier stages. Be
aware of it for yourself & your loved ones, and tell your doctor about it. Also
check with your pharmacist.
NOTE:
Estimated prevalence of mood disorders in a one-year period for adults in
the US is 7.1 percent of the population, according to the National
Institute of Mental Health. For each person affected, numerous family members
are affected as well. The World Health Organization states that depression is
the leading cause of disability in the world.
The completed suicide rate for mood disorders is a staggering 15 to 20
percent. New Directions saves lives by our bonding and networking system
which includes urging people to call one another when feeling depressed or
suicidal. We help save lives! Call us to register at 215-659-2366. ext. 1.
Psychiatrist Peter C Whybrow, MD, of
UCLA, has an excellent website. An authority on
mood disorders, he states that some of his patients as they age no longer have
bipolar disorder. It is certainly something many of us can hope for. To read his
moving story on the death of his father,
click here & scroll way way down.
Sexually exploited by a professional? Click on
AdvocateWeb Helping Overcome Professional Exploitation.
For folks who are treatment resistant or don't want to
use drugs, read this effective & innovative approach by a patient who
healed herself:
"Healing Depression & Bipolar Disorder Without Drugs"
by Gracelyn Guyol, 2006.
"Anger" by Thich Nhat Hanh, a Life-Altering Book
Click here for Ruth's review of March
18, 2007
MUST LISTEN! Jane
Mountain, MD: 30-minutes with
Dr. Jane.
Click here.
Funny video by famous psychiatrist.
Click here.
Kitty Dukakis book, "Shock: The Healing
Power of ECT."
Click here & scroll down to read Ruth's review of Jan. 5,
2007.
Are you over age 50? Here's some Great
Volunteer Opportunities!
ComingOfAge.org, HQd at Temple University
Office of Vocational Rehab: Great Program in PA for
Disabled Individuals that can f-i-n-a-n-c-e your career!
Click on Website for OVR
Cool Indian Dude (1895-1986)
who said "We can together observe the extraordinary phenomena of human
existence" - and TRUTH IS A PATHLESS LAND.
Click for website of Krishnamurti
Large study shows
2/3 of People w/Depression Can Become Symptom-Free When They Work with Their
Doctor! That's why we maintain a Top Doc List.
ScienceDaily.com
Turn Up Your Speakers, Ladies
& Gentlemen!
Click here for an intimate portrayal of depression
by a variety of people who have experienced it &, in its wake, have become more
compassionate enlightened individuals, perhaps like you!
Click here.
Great interview with the late writer William Styron (1925-2006)
who discusses his depression, as does his wife, Rose. Styron didn't suffer his
first depression until the age of 60, and his second episode 20 years later. His
best-selling memoir "Darkness Visible" chronicles his illness while describing
the importance of a loving family, particularly his wife Rose; fellowship with
others who understand the illness; and hospitalization as a safe haven.
Click here to read.
Reading material, courtesy of:
Families for Depression
Awareness: Click on their A+ Website, then read their list on:
General books on Mood Disorders
Books for Family Members
What's the Best Therapy? W-O-R-K !!!!! Read below.
Click here for
Jobs in Pennsylvania. Click here for
Jobs for People with
Disabilities. Also
Your Ticket to Work.
N E W ! Mood
disorders are an illness of the Emotional Processing System of Our Brains. We
don't process emotions correctly. Medicine helps restore the chemical balance in
our brains, as does talk therapy. Q:
Angry? Worried? Fearful? Joyful? Need Reassurance?
A: Talk to someone about your f-e-e-l-i-n-g-s. Make
it a
Habit.
Activities For The Over Fifty Set, HQ at Temple University
Coming of Age
Denial of One's Illness is one thing, but
Anosognosia
is Another.
Click on Xavier Amador's
Informative Website
Aaron Beck's Cognitive Therapy: Read the story of how this once
Freudian-oriented psychiatrist changed his tune.
Click onto the Lasker Foundation Website.
Great info for everyone - with or
without a mood disorder!
"No one knows your health better than you"
Remedy Find Newsletters
-
sign up for
free
Bipolar Newsletter
AUDIO INFO: Excellent, didactic information by an expert. Concentrate & remember
the whole thing (it's not that difficult) & you can be the new leader of New
Directions.
Bipolar Updates
One of the Very First Info Sources on Manic Depression before the Internet was
in General Use -
University of Wisconsin at Madison
HealthLink of
Southampton, PA -
Free medical & dental care (limited) for the working uninsured of Bucks &
Montgomery County, PA. Call (215) 364-4247. Also a great place to
volunteer!
S U R R O U N D Y O U
R S E L F W I T H D E L I G H T F U L
P E O P L E ! ! ! ENERGY BREEDS E-N-E-R-G-Y.
PARTAKE IN EARTHLY DELIGHTS WHILE WE'RE HERE !
What are some of your favorites, Dear Reader? Some of our members love
going for
nature walks, attending
car shows,
visiting museums & art galleries,
going to
jazz clubs,
swimming,
movies. The possibilities are endless. Be sure
to get out of the house or your apartment & have fun!
WHY DO PEOPLE W/MENTAL ILLNESS SMOKE?
It gives the brain a shot of
dopamine. It's never too late to stop smoking. For info on Smoking Cessation
Classes, call
Abington Memorial Hospital at 215-481-8950, from 8 AM - 4 PM,
and speak to Marilyn Mitchell. The moment you stop smoking, your body and brain
begin to change, for the better.
WHY DO PEOPLE DELIGHT IN TALKING TO ONE ANOTHER?
Talking produces dopamine in the brain. If you're depressed in the morning, Dear
Reader, get on the phone and talk to someone. Again, at New Directions we
suggest you exchange phone numbers and talk!!! "It's good to hear the sound of
your voice." Ah, the sound of another person's voice, the most soothing
sound in the world. Quote by Nobelist Samuel Beckett:
"The beauty of the way and the goodness of the wayfarers."
Important quote
from the NY Times, Dec. 27, 2005, about a conference of psychotherapists about
WHY THERAPY WORKS: Dr. Dan Siegel, a child psychiatrist at UCLA, was one
of several speakers to emphasize how psychotherapy changes the wiring of the
brain. For example, he said, brain imaging findings suggest that secure
social interactions foster the integration of disparate [separate] parts
of the brain.
"When I'm telling you my feelings," he says, "discussing memories, in this close
relationship, I'm achieving better neurological integration. I'm repairing the
connections in the brain."
In other words, Talk to People Who Listen to You and Pay Attention - and who remember
details about you! Remember: People who suffer from
depression & bipolar disorder have had difficulty in the past expressing their
emotions. Through the help of a therapist or psychiatrist, a good friend, or
support group members, you can learn the art of comunication! And the feeling of
being understood!
And DO remember, "People who come to New Directions Get Better!"
We make
sure of that. Follow our common-sense
"Keys to Recovery."
Important ReMINDers:
Ah-choo!!! The
common cold or a seasonal allergy will generally go away on its own. If not, see your doctor. Many
folks like buying over-the-counter cold or allergy products. If you suffer from mood
disorders, be aware that some of the ingredients cause moodswings! Check
with your pharmacist about this. Many people are unaware of this, and
have, unfortunately, found out the hard way!
Also, don't forget that steroids may cause moodswings. When adding an
additional medication to your psych meds, make sure it doesn't disturb your
homeostasis.
* Click on
Tips on Keeping Depression Away by
Ivan Goldberg, MD. Click on his newly revised site, which offers
unparalleled important info!
*For strategy on getting an uncooperative patient to attend, read
our Quik Book on
"Help! My Loved One Won't Cooperate." It works!
New Directions: where teamwork is our middle name. Click on the following 2 brief
videos - turn up your speakers - and be prepared to feel your feelings......
Nature: Our Greatest Teacher: Why Geese Flock Together - Turn up Your Speakers!
There is no mental illness in animals. Only in homo sapiens.
http://www.cuttyhunkroseinspirations.com/geese.html
Find comfort in the Lord: The 23rd Psalm by poet King David.
Click here.
N E W ! ! Euphoria: Get a
natural high by
clicking on this link - and turn up your
speakers loudly
Mindpopper:
Frances Hazam does outstanding advocacy work at the
Mental Health Association of
Southeastern Pennsylvania. We suggest you get on her
email list & she'll send you vital email
alerts, advising you to get in touch w/your legislators for issues affecting
people with mental illness.
Also, click onto our Links Page, under "Advocacy" - and subscribe to other
online email alerts, and read our note at top of Advocacy
link page.
Mindpopper: According to a June, '06, NY
Times article, more and more antipsychotics are being prescribed for children!
It's okay if a child has been diagnosed with early onset schizophrenia or other
psychotic disorders, but according to the article, drugs are often used as a
substitute for good parenting. What's needed, instead of possibly harmful drugs
for a child's still-developing young brain, is intensive psychotherapy &
learning of good parenting skills. // In a July 4, 2006 NY Times Article,
studies have shown that excessive alcohol
consumption at
a young age (some youngsters begin before the age of 14) causes irreversible
brain damage. We live in a new illicit drug culture. A
Suburban Pennsylvania High School Principal walked down the hall with
a teacher and commented, "Whatever drug you want, these kids know where to get
it." Parents: Do you know
where your children are? Do you know who they're hanging out with? Do you have a
liquor cabinet? It's our responsibility as parents to maintain
discipline over our children.
20 percent of all Americans take
antidepressants, according to the June 25, 2006 Wall Street Journal.
Did you know that people on psychiatric meds
have a far higher rate of developing diabetes?
Very true. Some psych meds carry a higher risk for developing diabetes than
other meds. Check with your psychiatrist. Abington (PA) Memorial Hospital offers
an excellent set of classes on how to take charge of your diabetes before it
takes charge of you. "Proper diet & aerobic exercise" are the mantras. For info, call
the hospital at 215-672-0899.
Click here.
Type 2 diabetes is as insidious a disease as cancer.
Easiest & cheapest form of exercise:
Power-walking. Why does aerobic exercise (heart-pumping activity) make us feel
good? It releases endorphins (peptide hormones) in our brains. Make it a
habit! When the weather is inclement, walk indoors in a nearby mall.
The most important reason to come to ND is to bond with other people with our
illness and call them in good times and bad: We must "Express our emotions." People
with mood disorders have had difficulty in the past discharging
their emotions,
and need to learn new ways to communicate. This includes, in particular,
expressing anger. Grrrrgh!!! "Healthy anger"
is the goal! Go for fast walks, use a punching bag, get on the phone and talk to
someone about the person or situation upsetting you. Discover for yourself,
"Who am I really angry at?" - discuss with therapist, friends or trusted family how to
express that anger.
Also, get in the habit of complimenting people: The first step toward
friendship.
We offer:
Evening meetings
Daytime meetings - Thursdays (click on
Calendar)
Social events - a great way to learn to socialize
List of Top Docs/Top Therapists
Guest Speakers the 3rd Tuesday of the month, followed by Groups
Groups offer: Concrete, on-the-spot problem-solving ideas that work!
M o r e G r e a t W e b s i t e s ! ! !
Look Who's Blogging! The clever award-winners at Philly's own
Beck Institute. Click
here.
Philly's Own Liz Spikol
The facility below offers Unsurpassed Residential Housing for People with
Psychiatric Disabilities. Read the below article:
Patterns of Family Caring: Help that Hurts, Help that Helps
Project Transition
-
215-997-9959 - (facilities in Warrington, PA & Chestnut Hill, PA, with
more being built!)
Partners in Recovery: Doctors & Patients should be partners
19-minute video made in 2004
http://www.stopstigma.samhsa.gov/partnersinrecovery.htm
Health Insurance for Pennsylvania Kids
Personal Health Records - You have a right to own a copy of
your health records. It's a "must" in this age rife w/medical mismanagement.
http://myphr.com/
Section 8 Govt. Housing for Low Income People - Sign up to Be Put on Their
W-a-i-t-i-n-g List
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NEW DIRECTIONS' MISSION STATEMENT:
Our mission is to serve as a support and
education group to help individuals with mood disorders (depression and bipolar
disorder) reach their highest potential: to move beyond their diagnosis to lead
meaningful, productive and joyous lives, even if that means changing our goals
and our lifestyles to accommodate our illness. We help members participate in
society to the fullest: through work, volunteerism, and involvement in the
community at large. We recognize that many of us have artistic, creative or
intellectual abilities and encourage our members to utilize their gifts to the
fullest. We also serve as much-needed support to family members and friends.
We are also committed to educating the public about the treatability of
depression and bipolar disorder to help dispel prejudice, and let society know
that “for every terrible story about someone with a mood disorder, there are a
thousand success stories.”
MINDPOPPER: One of our group
members realized he was having classic signs of having a
moodswing. Although he left a message with his psychiatrist, he did not
indicate his condition was URGENT. A moodswing is URGENT, so please convey this
to your doctor or his secretary or answering machine! Remember, we have the power to
stop a moodswing before it gets started.
Please keep reading. There's more important information
below, for YOU, the most important person in the whole wide world!
Who would ever imagine that Little Ruthie Greenwold, spelling champ
and fastest female runner at Mercer Elem. School, Shaker Heights, Ohio, would grow up into Ruth
Z. Deming, MGPGP. "We live so many lives in one lifetime." Click here for the excellent article on Ruth and New
Directions that appears in the Sept. 14, 2005 edition of.....
The Jewish
Exponent. Oh, she's Jewish! Who knew?
Remember, we are so much more than our illness. That's why we include under links, the personal motto of our Director, Ruth Deming - "Pursue the Wonderful" - all the wonderful opportunities life offers. Our director, Ruth Z. Deming, attributes her healing from bipolar disorder to always going toward the light and away from the darkness. Read her fascinating life story under "Quik Books" - "Introduction to Myself" - and "Keys to Recovery."
Says Ruth, "I no longer suffer from moodswings, from manic "highs" or the
inevitable "lows" that follow as a balancing act in the brain. The last time I
was psychotic/paranoid was on the infamous Sept. 11, 2001, when I fancied that Nazi
soldiers were marching up my quiet street in Willow Grove, PA.
I do not believe
I'll ever get manic or psychotic again. I'm post-menopausal, and past the most
stressful years of my life (raising my 2 children into healthy adults) - but if I do, I've always been able to
stop my manias before they got started, by recognizing my pre-manic symptoms.
Those of you reading this website should work on learning your pre-manic
symptoms, so you can stop an episode before it gets started!
There is a
small threshold upon which we stand, and in that time, we can say, "Wow, my
thoughts are racing, I can't sit still, I have to make a zillion phone calls, I
have the urge to go out and use my credit card and buy things, I stayed up all
night (a critical symptom)...." Discuss this symptomology with trusted friends, family, and
mental health professionals. Do not allow your illness to control you! You have
the capacity to
Take Charge of Your Illness!
But only if you want to! Many people enjoy the
feeling of being high. "I never enjoyed my manias," says our director Ruth.
"Clarity of mind is the most important quality in life to me. This also applies
to drinking. I can relax and have fun w/o alcohol."
Consider these statistics: 30,000 people die by suicide every year
because of depression. This is preventable! (Compare with 40,000 Breast Cancer
Victims.) If anyone reading this site needs someone to talk to,
IMMEDIATELY call this reliable Helpline: 800-273-TALK.
Also, click on John McManamy's fantastic website. This man, who has bipolar
disorder, has dedicated his life to others with the illness.
Click here.
Suggestion: Carry the name and phone
number of your psychiatrist & family doctor in your wallet or pocketbook. Also, get parameters from your doctor on how much extra
medication it's OK to take. For example, how much extra medication can you take
safely
(1) if you're not sleeping well (insomnia may be a prelude to mania) - or
(2) if you and others believe you're on the threshold of mania (see 2 paragraphs
above for symptoms). One group member told our
Saturday Support Group he
was on the threshold of mania for 2 days and his doctor wasn't returning his calls. He
went into the worst mania of his life, which wiped out his savings account, and
destroyed his marriage! There's often only so much a family can take! Know your
symptoms and, with your doctor's permission, take an extra antianxiety
pill or antipsychotic.
Depression, as well, can often be prevented. One must look ahead toward
the future and act accordingly. For example, one of our members with a
high-level job where serious downsizing is occurring, had a back-up plan should
he be laid off, and was already interviewing for positions! (On a resume, the
word "downsized" is preferable to laid off.) Fortunately, he came through the
cutback.
Another depression just "waiting to happen" is when a mother faces the prospect
of having her last child leave home to attend college. In our American society,
this is what parents are primed to do. They've given the best years of their
lives on behalf of their children, but now face the "empty nest syndrome." Have
a plan in place when your child goes off to college.
We also encourage our members to remain employed. ["Without work, all
life goes rotten." - Albert Camus, existentialist author] Our brains are wired to work.
If your illness prevents you from working, do volunteer work. Everyone needs a
life of meaning. See our
Links - Volunteer.
At ND, we encourage EVERYONE who attends to bond and
network
with others in our group with whom they feel comfortable, and to immediately
exchange phone no.'s and email addresses, and to call one another in times of
trouble. Everyone should have at least one name they can call. Our Ada
Fleisher maintains our Phone List, as well as our Top Doc/Top Therapist list.
We also want to apprise readers of the great services of the Abington Memorial
Hospital Nutrition Department and their weight loss program. As we know, psych
meds can make us fat. Call 215-481-7571 to make an appointment. Weight
maintenance (diet & exercise) is a must to avoid obesity-related disorders. A
delicious healthy snack is unsalted roasted peanuts in the shell. Instead of
gobbling them up, like regular peanuts, your hands must work, like a squirrel's, to open up each
one. Ever seen a fat squirrel?
H O T T I P S F O R C O L D D A R K W
E A T H E R: Dress in layers. Get plenty of light. Open up your blinds
& let your eyes soak up the light per
NY Times article on SAD (seasonal affective
disorder). Also, continue your healthy lifestyle:
aerobic exercise,
regular sleep, eat nutritious foods & drink plenty of water.
B R R R R ! Baby, it's cold outside & maybe inside too.
Click here for energy-saving tips.
OK, enough said about serious stuff. Let's go out and party. Or at least click
onto Bartleby and
feed our imagination.